Youth Schedule

It always takes Luke and I a long time to hammer out our youth schedule. We wait a to see who our core group of kids will be. Our neighborhood is transient, so each season we have a new group of kids that add to our core group. It takes a month or so to see who is going to dig in. We then make our schedule to fit the new core group.

This may seem to be a strange way to create a program…. and it is. However, our goal is not to run a program, but to create maximum availability to our core kids. The schedule looks as follows:

Monday
8-9am Breakfast and Ride to School
After School-5:00pm High School Time

Tuesday
8-9am Breakfast and Ride to School
After School-5:00pm High School Time

Wednesday
8-9am Breakfast and Ride to School
After School-5:00pm Elementary Time

Thursday
8-9 Breakfast and Ride to School

Sunday
3:30-5:00pm High School Time
6:00pm Family Meal
6:30pm Family Worship

College Bound


Interested in helping a Rock Island graduate pursue their education at the next level? Well, here’s your chance.

His name is Dillon Espinoza and he is a graduate of Dove Science Academy here in Oklahoma City (off of NW23 and Western). He played soccer during his time at Dove and is continuing his playing days at Hillsdale College in Moore, Oklahoma. Following the very first team tryout Dillion was asked to come back the following week to play again in front of more of the team and coaches. After he came back the following week and played, he was offered a position on the team! He is the son of a Cross and Crown employee from the community. He is the oldest of four kids and has been involved with Rock Island since he was about 12 or 13 years old.

He and his parents have applied/filed all their necessary paperwork in order to receive as much financial aid as possible and are now doing their best to tighten up the remaining funds needed. Bottom line, Dillion and his parents are several hundred dollars short of finalizing his schedule, getting his books and him being 100% enrolled for the first day of class.

To their delight they have been presented with program from Hillsdale that is called, “ChurchMatch”, which is a church tuition assistance program. Basically, the idea is that the potential student would be plugged in to a local church/youth group and that church would then help sponsor the student as he/she goes to college. In return, Hillsdale would match whatever amount is given from the church up to $200.00, per semester.

So there’s the opportunity. If you’re interested in helping Dillion continue his soccer career and his education, please contact us at Cross and Crown/Rock Island in one of the following ways.

Call us at – (405) 232-7696 – please leave a message if you aren’t able to get an answer.

or

Email us at – crossandcrownmission@gmail.com

Summer Happenings

Sooooo……turns out summer break for kiddos is almost done and spoken for and I must say that it has been quite a summer.

Like I said in a previous blog, whenever I haven’t posted in a while it’s not because there hasn’t been much going on but, chances are, there has been so much going on that it makes it tough to know where to start or make time to blog. (Don’t get me wrong. I am not saying I can’t find time to blog because I am just too busy. I do have free time but I choose to use that free time doing other things.)

Rather than write a novel about each and every occurrence that has come and gone this summer at Rock Island and Cross and Crown I will list some of the highlights (or ‘lowlights’ depending on how you look at them)…

1. The Cross and Crown Ebay Store is going pretty hardcore right now. We have had big success selling name brand, used and unused clothing items and electronics (video games, cameras, computer items). We have also had some success selling furniture items locally on Craigslist and Ebay classified. If you are interested in more about this or have no idea what I am talking about click the Ebay link at the top.

2. The Rock Island youth have gone on a few different trips, such as, swimming at a local donors home, several eating-out experiences, a pool-table delivery in the Arbuckle Mountains. Also, a few of the girls have been to the zoo, movies and Frontier City with a couple of our most reliable and consistent volunteers.

3. The two Cross and Crown interns have been a pleasure and big help to have around.

4. Thursday, Family Night’s have been a great addition to our summer schedule. This summer Ron and I decided to make more of an effort to get to know the families and/or overseers of several of the kids that we are involved with on a daily basis. So far we have been able to get to meet and get to know parents, grand-parents, aunts/uncles and brothers and sisters. We have celebrated 2 birthdays. We have been eating some authentic, home-made Mexican food, such as the following: gorditas, cheese enchiladas, mole (check that out here… AAAHHH! ) and flautas, to name a few. We have also been able to pray over a former Rock Island youth who is now a young man that recently graduated from high-school. He has had a few soccer tryouts at Hillsdale College during our Thursday night gatherings but each tryout he has come to pray and be prayed for before he goes to his tryout.

There you have it. A very concise, condensed summary of the summer thus far. We only have three more weeks before Oklahoma City schools start but I am sure there are a few more significant events that are yet to happen.

God has been so evident to us this summer, even through some tougher times with both kids in the youth program and with happenings at Cross and Crown. He never ceases to amaze me with his incredible ability to know what we really need, even when we think we know what we need. He is always faithful.

Luke

Help With Summer Cooling Bill

A limited amount of summer cooling assistance funds will be made available across the state through the federal Low-Income Home Energy Assistance Program, which is administered through the Oklahoma Department of Human Services.

The funds are designed to help low-income households that are extremely vulnerable to summer-heat stresses. OKDHS will begin taking applications July 19, and will continue until all allocated funds are depleted. OKDHS has approximately $4 million in federal funds for this year’s Summer Cooling Program in Oklahoma.

Mel Phillips, OKDHS LIHEAP coordinator, said eligibility for LIHEAP is based on each household’s income and assets. “If you know someone who is facing heat-related health problems because of their inability to afford adequate cooling, and who may be income eligible, please tell them about the Summer Cooling Program available at their local OKDHS office.”

The benefits are $120 for a one-person household, while a home with two or more persons may receive $180. Only one payment per household is allowed annually for LIHEAP summer cooling assistance.

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eBay Store Update

Visit our eBay store
With the economic changes this year, we have all adjusted our budgets. Many are not able to financially support the mission in ways they have in the past. This shortfall has encouraged us to find new and creative ways to fund our operational expenses.

Donate
We have started an eBay store to generate additional funding, and are asking you to consider donating new or gently used clothing, small electronics, DVD’s, furniture, sporting goods, and household items. The next time you are shopping for new clothing or shoes, buy an identical pair to donate to our store! New items are big sellers!

Buy
Visit our store often to find surprising bargains. We continually update our growing store with new items as we receive donations. Mark us as a favorite site on your computer. We have a newsletter sign-up on our store page that will send inventory updates directly to your inbox.

Partner
You have the opportunity to be a foundational partner in the growth and development of our store. Please consider trying one of the following partnerships.

1. Home- Host a donation drive in your neighborhood. With a flyer we’ll provide, you can canvas your neighborhood and distribute flyers requesting a neighborhood porch donation drive for your favorite non-profit (us!) We will work with you to schedule a day to canvas your neighborhood, then we’ll go door to door to pick up donated items on the designated pick up day.

2. Church- Each of us have a a place we call church home. We are looking for ambassadors to set up a weekly donation spot or closet within your church building. This creates a convenient way for the entire church to become a partner!

3. Work- The work place could be a perfect opportunity to create a donation partnership. By setting up a donation box at work, your business could impact urban OKC on a weekly basis in a very easy, but significant way!

Visit our eBay store

For more information:
email Ron

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Creative Thinking

So here’s the deal…

As you may or may not know, Cross and Crown Mission has a clothing store that is apart of a ministry called, “Rebuilding the Walls”. Through this ministry the money that is raised through the store (by way of clothing and other donated items that cost anywhere from .25 cents to 25.00 dollars) several individuals and families are supported. A few women and their families from the neighborhood are actually employed by the profits from the clothing store.

Each and every item that is in the clothing store comes by way of donation. For instance, there is an individual from the church that I attend who brings some donations that are collected throughout the weeks and brings them to us at Cross and Crown. We have one other church that has a donations closet where people from the church will bring donations from their home, workplace ect. on Sundays and Wednesdays and store them in a closet. Then, generally, every 2 or 3 weeks Ron and I will go in our 15 passenger van to pick up the donations at their location.

Once the items have been taken to the Cross and Crown store, several of the women and other volunteers sift through all the items and price things accordingly. Clothing items, yard supplies, Halloween costumes, diapers, older tv’s, puppets….you name it, it’s been donated. Most things that people donate are things that they have either decided aren’t worth their time and effort to sell on their own or are of no value to them. But, what we have discovered is that once people have been educated on how their donations generate money for a ministry and/or project they tend to donate items that they otherwise wouldn’t (i.e. electronics, appliances, nicer clothing items and other more valuable items).

The idea that we are trying to build off of is an idea that has come about due, partially, to the tougher economic times. As we all know, the economy has struggled and therefore people, rightfully, become much tighter with their money. They spend less and they give less. We, because of our 501(c)3 non-profit status, have also been greatly impacted by the stresses of the economy and people giving less. We have experienced a decline in moneys given but haven’t necessarily seen as a great of a decline by way of item donations. Therefore, we have decided that we might have a greater opportunity to raise funds in the form of item donations.

The last couple months we have been experimenting with some of the more valuable donations, such as, electronics, new/unworn clothes and larger items that we physically don’t have space for in the clothing room. For example, some of the items we have held back recently include a GPS, a digital picture frame, some computer networking items, a pool table and an air compressor. These are each examples of items that if we were to place in the clothing room, chances are, people from the neighborhood either wouldn’t be willing to pay for or we are unwilling to price at their real value.

The experiment we have been working with is placing these types of items on Ebay and Craigslist. To this point we have started each and every item we have put on Ebay at .99 cents and let its’ value determine itself. Recently we sold a collection of 10-12 bicycling t-shirts, some new and some used, on Ebay and made over $100.00. Whereas, if we would have sold them in the Cross and Crown store they would have each been sold for no more than $2.00 a piece meaning that we would have made no more than $20.00 total. And, the best part is, this money is then directly recycled back into, “Rebuilding the Walls’, and, hopefully, will do well enough to fund some of the youth expenses at Rock Island.

The pool table that someone donated to us is not something that is generally donated to us. But, because they were familiar with how we sell things on Ebay and Craigslist and how the money received from the sale is to benefit a ministry, they were willing to donate the pool table.

To this point, we have collected 20-25 items through various donations that we have deemed valuable enough to sell online. Through this we have generated a few hundred dollars. The way we look at it is, that’s a few hundred dollars less that someone has to give financially to Cross and Crown or that we, as staff, have to raise.

Below are pictures of a recent venture Ron, myself and 4 of the Rock Island youth took to Falls Creek in order to deliver the pool table that someone donated to us which we listed on Craigslist. We decided to use the opportunity as a work/play experience for the kids.

A group at Falls Creek found our listing online, offered to buy the table and then offered some additional funds if we were willing to deliver the table to them. We made enough money off of the sale to pay for all travel expenses and supplies, lunch and a future trip later on this summer.

The Ebay/Craigslist experiment also has some long term potential for the kids. We think it serves as a great learning experience/skill-set for them if they choose to use it later on down the road.

If you or someone you know is interested in hearing more about this new venture, please let us know. Also, if you or someone you know has an item or items they would like to contribute towards this cause, don’t hesitate to contact us ( lwhitmire1@gmail.com or 232-7696). We even do pickups for large items!

Luke

Summer Schedule


It’s hard to believe, but summer is upon us. I came to this realization as soon as I hit the parking lot this morning as youth were walking up the street yelling, “What are we doing today?” I replied, “Well…we are going to hang out.”

We thought it would be a slow start, but by 8:30am we were knee deep in a sweaty work-out time with 6 kids. Luke had quickly designed a workout program for two categories of people – those who need to gain mass & those who need to lose mass (I’ll leave it up to you to decide which category I fit in).

By the end of the work out, our group had grown to 15 kids! So much for the slow start. Those 15 joined us to load boxes, serve meals, and color with children from 10:30 to 1:00. Then, from 1:00-4:00 we ate lunch, played video games, basketball, and a killer game of dodgeball (I think I might have a bruise or two).

Our hope is that this summer will be full of opportunities for our youth to work, play, pray and laugh. We are excited that so many came today (on their first day of summer break) to serve the people in their community!

Here’s our summer youth schedule:

Monday
8:30a workout
9:30a showers and breakfast
11:00a food pantry volunteer
1:00p hang out

Tuesday
8:30a workout
9:30a showers and breakfast
11:00a food pantry volunteer
1:00p donation pick-up and Ebay Store

Wednesday
8:30a workout
9:30a showers and breakfast
11:00a food pantry volunteer
1:00p movie day

Thursday
6:00p family meal

Friday
10:00a Take the Park!

If you are wondering what the Youth Ebay Store is, stay tuned!

Today I left confused.

The day started off relatively normal (which, I must confess, I am not exactly sure what normal is at the mission). We had a pretty full house but because we are still in the first third of the month we had a couple extra spots on the food/clothing list.

It was about 11:30 when a couple came in the doorway and made their way up the stairs. I didn’t recognize them. I assumed they were new to Cross and Crown and so I did my best to explain how things worked. They said they were interested in getting some food and asked if we were a shelter. I told them some of the different things we were able to offer them but that we weren’t able to offer much in the way of shelter.

They explained how they were from out of town. They came with a fair, got fired while in Oklahoma City and now were stranded. They said they could definitely use the food but shelter was their number one need.

Again, I explained that we weren’t capable of housing individuals but the good news was that City Rescue Mission located downtown did a pretty good job of handling most housing/shelter needs. As I started to explain how to get to City Rescue they quickly interrupted and said that they had already been several times and had been turned away night after night because the shelter was full.

I found that a little bit peculier. First of all, City Rescue is a pretty large facility. They have mens, womens and family housing available. Secondly, most of the individuals we know and that come to Cross and Crown don’t head down to City Rescue or any other shelter when it is as warm as it has been lately. Generally they head that way when it gets cold.

So, after things slowed down on the food panty end I made a phone call over to City Rescue to find out what the couple needed to do in order to get a bed for the night. The individual that I spoke with at City Rescue was very helpful and straight-forward. She told me they needed to be there by 7:00 p.m. and to have one form of i.d. Easy enough. I asked her about the shelter being full the last several nights and she informed me that they haven’t had to turn anyone away in several weeks. Hmmm.

I reported back to the couple and told them what I had been told. Be there by 7:00. Have one form of i.d. I also told them the woman I spoke informed me that they hadn’t run out of beds in weeks and that there were currently beds available…..

“Yeah, but we aren’t separating”, they quickly replied.

After some q & a I discovered that they had been offered beds but were unwilling to separate into the men’s and women’s dorms. They informed me how they had been married for less than 9 months and were unwilling to be apart. Even if that meant having to sleep on the streets? Yep. They both explained how they had one thing going and that was each other. Fair enough.

We talked for several more minutes and discussed some other options in the city. I directed them to some other agencies that offered meals during the day and they seemed content. I, in order to make sure they understood they had an opportunity but were choosing not to take advantage of it, rehashed their decision not to be apart for 7-8 hours in order to have a safe place to stay for the night. But, they stayed true to their decision to not be apart and ultimately decided the risk of being on the streets was not a big enough threat to split up for the night.

I get that they love each other. In all honesty, they were right, they didn’t/don’t have a whole lot going their way right now and so they have decided the one thing they do have going for them, each other, is too valuable to be without, even if it’s only for a few hours.

I, personally, in their position, would opt for my wife and I to be apart for a few hours each night to be in a safe place, rather than the streets. I value my wife’s safety in the long term and so I would choose to be apart at night, rather than together on the streets night after night. But, I can’t knock them for wanting to stay together throughout their hard times. I might change my mind after having to be apart from her night after night. I don’t know.

So here’s my question. What would you do? Do you live on the streets with your spouse night after night? Or, do you split up each evening to sleep in a warm, safe place?

Luke